Use system /tmp when testing actionpack

https://github.com/rails/rails/commit/c64bff2c87ebf363703c63ecd4a96d56a1a78364
added support and enabled parallel execution of the actionpack tests.

However it introduced https://github.com/rails/rails/commit/c64bff2c87ebf363703c63ecd4a96d56a1a78364
since one cannot connect to a socket file that's inside a Vagrant synced folder
due to security restrictions, and DRb tries to.

Also rename the temporary files to make it obvious that they're rails-related,
since now they're placed outside the project's directory.

Fixes https://github.com/rails/rails/commit/c64bff2c87ebf363703c63ecd4a96d56a1a78364
Merge pull request #16644 from Agis-/drb-tests-actionpack-vagrant

Use system /tmp for temp files when testing actionpack