=act #13966 Change wrong default discardOld in UntypedActor become

(cherry picked from commit 2aada3b5a857552f9d7854a19cd72d77e6a52b9b)
Merge pull request #15096 from akka/wip-13966-become-discardOld-master-patriknw

=act #13966 Change wrong default discardOld in UntypedActor become (for validation)
=pro #15018 update to sbt 0.13.5-RC1 which has publish fix
Merge pull request #15018 from 2m/stamp-version-fix

FAILED: akka-publish-nightly job
=build #15103 Add Build start/finish events
These are visible on the grafana dashboard,
in order to be able to see on which commit
stats have been recorded.

It's enabled via: `-Dakka.sbt.graphite=true`

Resolves #15103
Merge pull request #15127 from ktoso/build-graphite-events

=build #15103 Add Build start/finish events
=pro #15031 move build logic into separate files