Bitops: Stop overallocating storage space on set

Previously the string was created empty then re-sized
to fit the offset, but sds resize causes the sds to
over-allocate by at least 1 MB (which is a lot when
you are operating at bit-level access).

This also improves the speed of initial sets by 2% to 6%
based on quick testing.

Patch logic provided by @oranagra

Fixes #1918