libsysutils: Add iovec/runOnEachSocket

SocketClient:
* Replace sendDataLocked with sendDataLockedv which takes an iovec.
* Add a version of sendData, sendDatav, which takes an iovec.
* do not preserve iovec content through sendDatav

SocketListener:
* Add runOnEachSocket, which allows to to specify a SocketClientCommand to
  run individually on each socket. This allows you to do broadcast-like
  actions customized for each individual socket.
* Client safe list reference counting for sendBroadcast & runOnEach Socket

(cherry picked from commit a6e965578e44f8ae5f98de822ba5decec381d5fc)

Signed-off-by: Nick Kralevich <nnk@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Mark Salyzyn <salyzyn@google.com>

Change-Id: I716f89c01b4cb7af900045c7e41fac1492defb06