Wrapper compiler static library fixes

Put everything the way it was before we started this whole adventure, and only have 2 small additions:

* orte_check_lsf.m4: set $1_WRAPPER_EXTRA_*
* orte_check_tm.m4: set $1_WRAPPER_EXTRA_*

Previous patches also set WRAPPER_EXTRA flags for SLURM components, but AFAICT, the SLURM components have no libraries (PMI is handled elsewhere).

The only other orte_check_*.m4 file that could be added to this PR is orte_check_alps.m4, but I don't quite grok that file -- it's different than the others.  And they may never want to build statically, so I didn't touch it here...

@rhc54 could you beat a dead horse a little more and have a look?  Sorry...