UI to alert of respend attempt affecting wallet.

Respend transactions that conflict with transactions already in the
wallet are added to it.  They are not displayed unless they also involve
the wallet, or get into a block.  If they do not involve the wallet,
they continue not to affect balance.

Transactions that involve the wallet, and have conflicting non-equivalent
transactions, are highlighted in red.  When the conflict first occurs, a
modal dialog is thrown.

CWallet::SyncMetaData is changed to sync only to equivalent transactions.

When a conflict is added to the wallet, counter nConflictsReceived is
incremented.  This acts like a change in active block height for the
purpose of triggering UI updates.
Add -respendnotify option and new RPC data

-respendnotify=<cmd> Execute command when a network tx respends wallet
tx input (%s=respend TxID, %t=wallet TxID)

Add respendsobserved array to gettransaction, listtransactions, and
listsinceblock RPCs.  This omits the malleated clones that are included
in the walletconflicts array.

Add RPC help for respendsobserved and walletconflicts (help was missing
for the latter).