Allow ActiveRecord::Relation#update to run on result of a relation with callbacks and validations

- Right now, there is no method to update multiple records with validations and callbacks.
- Changed the behavior of existing `update` method so that when `id`
  attribute is not given and the method is called on an `Relation`
  object, it will execute update for every record of the `Relation` and
  will run validations and callbacks for every record.
- Added test case for validating that the callbacks run when `update` is
  called on a `Relation`.
- This change introduces performance issues when a large number of
  records are to be updated because it runs UPDATE query for every
  record of the result. The `update_all` method can be used in that case
  if callbacks are not required because it will only run single UPDATE
  for all the records.