std: Remove the as_utf16_p functions

These functions are all much better expressed via RAII using the to_utf16()
method on strings. This refactoring also takes this opportunity to properly
handle when filenames aren't valid unicode when passed through to the windows
I/O layer by properly returning I/O errors.

All previous users of the `as_utf16_p` or `as_utf16_mut_p` functions will need
to convert their code to using `foo.to_utf16().append_one(0)` to get a
null-terminated utf16 string.

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