pjsip: avoid edge case potential crash in answer()

When accidentally compiling against a wrong version of
pjsip headers with a different pjsip_inv_session size,
the invite_tsx structure could be null in the answer()
function.  This led to a crash because it attempted to
send the session response with an uninitialized packet
pointer.  This patch presets packet to null and adds a
diagnostic log message to explain why the call fails.

Review: https://reviewboard.asterisk.org/r/3267/
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Merged revisions 408970 from http://svn.asterisk.org/svn/asterisk/branches/12


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