Change order updater to refresh shipment rates and amounts on change

* This change will refresh the shipment rates and amounts when a
* completed order state changes.

  One specific example would be if the order line item quantity is
  changed in the admin menus we want the order shipment and shipping
  total to update.

Fixes #5235
Fixes #5222
refs #4428

Conflicts:
	core/spec/models/spree/shipment_spec.rb
Finally fixes last backend spec.