Move symfony cache component

Fix #170, Replace #177

Depends on https://github.com/FriendsOfSymfony/FOSHttpCache/pull/145

*TODO*
* [ ] Wrap up https://github.com/FriendsOfSymfony/FOSHttpCache/pull/145, tag a version and up the required version in composer.json
* [ ] Documentation (see also #178 but note that things changed since then)
when using the default user context subscriber, the defaults come from the deprecated constants instead of the defaults in the subscriber. they "happen" to be the same values so things should work out.