pg_upgrade:  remove reference to autovacuum_multixact_freeze_max_age

autovacuum_multixact_freeze_max_age was added as a pg_ctl start
parameter in 9.3.X to prevent autovacuum from running.  However, only
some 9.3.X releases have autovacuum_multixact_freeze_max_age as it was
added in a minor PG 9.3 release.  It also isn't needed because -b turns
off autovacuum in 9.1+.

Without this fix, trying to upgrade from an early 9.3 release to 9.4
would fail.

Report by EDB

Backpatch through 9.3
pg_upgrade:  assume user is install user

The user specified to the upgrade was effectively the install user, but
that was not clearly stated in the comments, documentation, or error
messages.