MFC r264905 and r266860, except for the ATF parts.

r266860
Fix unintended KBI change from r264905.  Add _fib versions of
ifa_ifwithnet() and ifa_ifwithdstaddr()  The legacy functions will call the
_fib() versions with RT_ALL_FIBS, preserving legacy behavior.

sys/net/if_var.h
sys/net/if.c
        Add legacy-compatible functions as described above.  Ensure legacy
        behavior when RT_ALL_FIBS is passed as fibnum.

sys/netinet/in_pcb.c
sys/netinet/ip_output.c
sys/netinet/ip_options.c
sys/net/route.c
sys/net/rtsock.c
sys/netinet6/nd6.c
        Call with _fib() functions if we must use a specific fib, or the
        legacy functions otherwise.

r264905
Fix subnet and default routes on different FIBs on the same subnet.

These two bugs are closely related.  The root cause is that ifa_ifwithnet
does not consider FIBs when searching for an interface address.

sys/net/if_var.h
sys/net/if.c
        Add a fib argument to ifa_ifwithnet and ifa_ifwithdstadddr.  Those
        functions will only return an address whose interface fib equals the
        argument.

sys/net/route.c
        Update calls to ifa_ifwithnet and ifa_ifwithdstaddr with fib
        arguments.

sys/netinet/in.c
        Update in_addprefix to consider the interface fib when adding
        prefixes.  This will prevent it from not adding a subnet route when
        one already exists on a different fib.

sys/net/rtsock.c
sys/netinet/in_pcb.c
sys/netinet/ip_output.c
sys/netinet/ip_options.c
sys/netinet6/nd6.c
        Add RT_DEFAULT_FIB arguments to ifa_ifwithdstaddr and ifa_ifwithnet.
        In some cases it there wasn't a clear specific fib number to use.
        In others, I was unable to test those functions so I chose
        RT_DEFAULT_FIB to minimize divergence from current behavior.  I will
        fix some of the latter changes along with PR kern/187553.

PR:             kern/187550
PR:             kern/187552
MFC r265092, except for the ATF bits.

Fix a panic when removing an IP address from an interface, if the same address
exists on another interface.  The panic was introduced by change 264887, which
changed the fibnum parameter in the call to rtalloc1_fib() in
ifa_switch_loopback_route() from RT_DEFAULT_FIB to RT_ALL_FIBS.  The solution
is to use the interface fib in that call.  For the majority of users, that will
be equivalent to the legacy behavior.

PR:             kern/189089