IR: Implement uselistorder assembly directives

Implement `uselistorder` and `uselistorder_bb` assembly directives,
which allow the use-list order to be recovered when round-tripping to
assembly.

This is the bulk of PR20515.

git-svn-id: https://llvm.org/svn/llvm-project/llvm/trunk@216025 91177308-0d34-0410-b5e6-96231b3b80d8