Fix: filter attach vs event enable race

In order to correctly handle the use-case where events are enabled
_after_ trace is started, and _after_ applications are already being
traced, the event should be created in a "disabled" state, so that it
does not trace events until its filter is attached.

This fix needs to be done both in lttng-tools and lttng-ust. In order to
keep ABI compatibility between tools and ust within a stable release
cycle, we introduce a new "disabled" within struct lttng_ust_event
padding (previously zeroed). Newer LTTng-UST checks this flag, and
fallback on the old racy behavior (enabling the event on creation) if it
is unset.

Therefore, old session daemon works with newer lttng-ust of the same
stable release, and vice-versa. However, building lttng-tools requires
an upgraded lttng-ust, which contains the communication protocol with
the new "disabled" field.

Signed-off-by: Mathieu Desnoyers <mathieu.desnoyers@efficios.com>