ISPN-3981 Enhance grouping API to support group manipulation methods

* First implementation. Added getGroup() and removeGroup() methods

This is the base implementation. Added methods to return and remove the keys from a group. This may be extended to support other functionality.

https://issues.jboss.org/browse/ISPN-3981
Also if you only listen to Activated entries you don't need to make this synchronized and just use a ConcurrentLinkedQueue instead.