[libcontacts] kick off an UpdateRequest when contacts start to come in

This patch increases the speed of loading contacts by 30% on my device (that is with 10k contacts in the db).

Without it, the seasidecache in the FilterAll phase first adds all of the contacts to m_contactsToAppend before starting to process them in applyPendingContactUpdates.
Better to test if m_contactsToAppend is empty prior to the insertion?