Add more local settings

Add some of the more commonly changed settings to a settings.shared
file, so that people don't have to worry about their changes to
dh-newuser being overwritten.
Rewrite local/README file to be more comprehensive

The local/README file now has more detailed documentation on what each file
contains, and describes the MySQL users in detail.
dreamhacks_ro should not have INSERT access

I can't figure out why I ever stated that the read-only database user should
get INSERT access, but I've looked through the code and can't find a case where
it's necessary. Things *shouldn't* break with this change when it's actually
implemented on the server; if they do, that's a failure on my part.
Merge pull request #29 from Sophira/more-settings

Add more local settings