Use cmake --build instead of Make

- If possble try to abstract away from Make, and use cmake --build
- third-party still needs to find Make to build some components
- Removed search for Make from CMakeLists.txt
* for CMake < 3.0 --build has no color output
Merge pull request #1485 from equalsraf/tb-no-make-prg

Use cmake --build inside CMake scripts instead of calling Make directly