Allow for platforms that have optreset but not <getopt.h>.

Reportedly, some versions of mingw are like that, and it seems plausible
in general that older platforms might be that way.  However, we'd
determined experimentally that just doing "extern int" conflicts with
the way Cygwin declares these variables, so explicitly exclude Cygwin.

Michael Paquier, tweaked by me to hopefully not break Cygwin
Fix comment.

Previous commit was confused about the case we're handling: actually,
what the patch is dealing with is platforms that have optreset, *and*
have <getopt.h>, but the latter fails to declare the former.  Because
we use a linking probe to set HAVE_INT_OPTRESET, we need to be sure we
have a declaration even if <getopt.h> doesn't think it exists.