TOOLS: improve autocrop.lua

It now inserts no filters and does nothing until the hot-key is pressed.
This makes it more suitable to be put in ~/.mpv/lua.

When they hot-key is pressed, it now inserts the cropdetect filter and
waits 1 second (or a --lua-opts specified duration) before gathering
the cropdetect metadata and inserting the appropriate crop filter. A
second press of the hotkey removes the crop.