_With this — as anything else — each person has a responsibility to be considerate of the comfort levels of others. Discussions, projects, and events of this nature should strive to exist in a culture of respect and consent._

I like this as a positive statement of behavior that NIL encourages. IME statements of positive intent promote intrinsic motivation for good behavior and are less likely to lead to rules-lawyering than lists of "do not do this". Add more behaviors that the NIL community thinks will promote its stated values?