msg/Accepter: do not unlearn_addr on bind()

It is dangerous to set need_addr = true as it means someone may set the
addr to something else (specifically the port) in a racing thread.

However, it is not necessary: the only reason we added it way back in
5d5045d31a9e10d21b44eb1bd137db9ae53128ff was so that
local_connection->peer_addr would get updated, and bind() now calls that
unconditionally.

Fixes: #9079
Backport: firefly
Signed-off-by: Sage Weil <sage@redhat.com>