std.bitmanip BitArray refactor

I reviewed BitArray and found a few issues:
- constness
- incorrect treatment of "pad" bits
- many places where size_t should have been used.

Incidental fixes:
- https://issues.dlang.org/show_bug.cgi?id=11015
I changed this since last review. I'm not sure whether to use pointer or value, they should be equivalent if the optimizer is doing its job.