Remove compat includes from sys/types.h

Don't include the compatibility code in linux/*_compat.h in the public
header sys/types.h. This causes problems when an external code base
includes the ZFS headers and has its own conflicting compatibility code.
Lustre, in particular, defined SHRINK_STOP for compatibility with
pre-3.12 kernels in a way that conflicted with the SPL's definition.
Because Lustre ZFS OSD includes ZFS headers it fails to build due to a
'"SHRINK_STOP" redefined' compiler warning.  To avoid such conflicts
only include the compat headers from .c files or private headers.

Also, for consistency, include sys/*.h before linux/*.h then sort by
header name.

Signed-off-by: Ned Bass <bass6@llnl.gov>