[SPARK-3161][MLLIB] Adding a node Id caching mechanism for training deci...

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Author: Sung Chung <schung@alpinenow.com>

Closes #2868 from codedeft/SPARK-3161 and squashes the following commits:

5f5a156 [Sung Chung] [SPARK-3161][MLLIB] Adding a node Id caching mechanism for training decision trees.