ISPN-4091 Source state and transactions from primary owners
ISPN-4108 Pessimistic tx for a union CH will not be forwarded to all owners

When requesting transactions, do not exclude the source after a failure,
only do it after a SuspectException.
ISPN-4091 Exclude source after receiving a CacheNotFoundResponse
ISPN-3917 Implement projections for unindexed filters

Also refactor the Matcher interface and the interface for single filters (no callback)