Force closed ws handles

* So, after the ws terminates and we're cleaning up, I need to
  force the socket closed. Good to know.
* also regressing to having a single db instance for handlers
ParseAuthHeader fetch method from req
Move socket close to per instance

* REALLY not happy i have to manually close these.
* Wrap it with a connection check for safety reasons.
* Try not to write code when really tired and the CR person is on
  holiday
Latest patch for concurrency issues

* removed potential blocking issue around websock write
* moved client info mutex unlock to defer to catch panics
** Include logging for panic
* moved websocket cleanup to defer to catch strays as well
* bump to 1.2
* added version to status