[WIP] [SPARK-2764] Simplify daemon.py process structure

Curently, daemon.py forks a pool of numProcessors subprocesses, and those processes fork themselves again to create the actual Python worker processes that handle data.

I think that this extra layer of indirection is unnecessary and adds a lot of complexity.  This commit attempts to remove this middle layer of subprocesses by launching the workers directly from daemon.py.

See https://github.com/mesos/spark/pull/563 for the original PR that added daemon.py, where I raise some issues with the current design.
Good point.  This "shared-memory should_exit()" code is a carryover from the old `daemon.py`, but I don't think it's necessary.  I'll remove it.