Pass a MemoryBufferRef when we can avoid taking ownership.

The attached patch simplifies a few interfaces that don't need to take
ownership of a buffer.

For example, both parseAssembly and parseBitcodeFile will parse the
entire buffer before returning. There is no need to take ownership.

Using a MemoryBufferRef makes it obvious in the type signature that
there is no ownership transfer.
Update for llvm api change