std.bitmanip BitArray refactor

I reviewed BitArray and found a few issues:
- constness
- incorrect treatment of "pad" bits
- many places where size_t should have been used.

Incidental fixes:
- https://issues.dlang.org/show_bug.cgi?id=11015
Just wondering, what was the previous behaviour? Does increasing length within the last word overwrite bits in other `BitArray`s that point to that word?