[SPARK-1331] Added graceful shutdown to Spark Streaming

Current version of StreamingContext.stop() directly kills all the data receivers (NetworkReceiver) without waiting for the data already received to be persisted and processed. This PR provides the fix. Now, when the StreamingContext.stop() is called, the following sequence of steps will happen.
1. The driver will send a stop signal to all the active receivers.
2. Each receiver, when it gets a stop signal from the driver, first stop receiving more data, then waits for the thread that persists data blocks to BlockManager to finish persisting all receive data, and finally quits.
3. After all the receivers have stopped, the driver will wait for the Job Generator and Job Scheduler to finish processing all the received data.

It also fixes the semantics of StreamingContext.start and stop. It will throw appropriate errors and warnings if stop() is called before start(), stop() is called twice, etc.