[TASK] Add default TypoScript setting for extbase query cache

The extbase query cache is enabled by default. This patch
adds a TypoScript setting to enable or disable the cache in general
and on a plugin level.

Resolves: #57280
Releases: 6.2
Change-Id: I620a3c4d2c4e508630d97731f12cc11c617aae75
Reviewed-on: https://review.typo3.org/29763
Reviewed-by: Markus Klein
Tested-by: Markus Klein
Reviewed-by: Wouter Wolters
Reviewed-by: Marcin Sągol
Reviewed-by: Xavier Perseguers
Tested-by: Xavier Perseguers