fix some validation checks in dns response parsing code

since the buffer passed always has an actual size of 512 bytes, the
maximum possible response packet size, no out-of-bounds access was
possible; however, reading past the end of the valid portion of the
packet could cause the parser to attempt to process junk as answer
content.
fix negative response and non-response handling for dns queries

previously, all failures to obtain at least one address were treated
as nonexistant names (EAI_NONAME). this failed to account for the
possibility of transient failures (no response at all, or a response
with rcode of 2, server failure) or permanent failures that do not
indicate the nonexistence of the requested name. only an rcode of 3
should be treated as an indication of nonexistence.
fix if_nametoindex return value when interface does not exist

the return value is unsigned, so negative results for "errors" do not
make sense; 0 is the value reserved for when the interface name does
not exist.