disabled flag optimization of reload projects & fixed the comparison paths

* Oflag - somewhere works somewhere not ... see #3, #5 & MS Connect Issue #508628
* EndWith -> _cmpPathBEProjectWithString
fixed problem with initialization EventHandler's from UI.StatusToolWindow

+ Exception -> NotSupportedException
patch 3 public release

* FIXED: Resolved the problem - "Error with getting properties: not found project: <default>".
* FIXED: Problem with the UI-State panel initialization on some projects.