rails 4.1
FIX: reflections have been reworked in rails 4.1.2 - reflections is no longer available on activerecord objects, only on the class.
touch_paranoia_column before really_destroy!-ing a record in rails 4.1.x.
reloading already really_destroy!-ed associations is needed, otherwise super.destroy! will try to destroy these asociations (because they still exist on the activerecord object, but are already removed from the database)
Merge branch 'rails4.1' into rails4