[Buildsystem] Clean up build in boilerplateturial

Both autotools and cmake were set up rather strangely in
boilerplateturial. This patches improves things by

- not requiring ALUGrid to build anymore. Most programs don't even use
  it, and the ones that do fall back gracefully to YaspGrid if
  required.

- removing bogus lists of EIGENPROGRAMS and SUPERLUPROGRAMS in
  Makefile.am.

- including missing flags for UG and ALBERTA in CMakeLists.txt.

Thanks to Adrian for testing the release candidate and reporting the
problem.