Make dealloc use tp_free or don't allow inheritance

When a class is a base type, it must use its type's tp_free function to
trigger the real free, instead of PyObjec_Del().

We do not always follow this convention, so let's give it a once-over
and make sure we do that or that it's not a base type. Many of the types
have the flag set in the struct, but do not pass the allocator function
at init time, which makes them not really be a base. Remove the flag for
those types.