add constant for shared (GUI/core) -par settings

- introduce DEFAULT_SCRIPTCHECK_THREADS in main.h
- only show values from -"MAX_HW_THREADS" up to 16 for -par, as it
  makes no sense to try to leave more "cores free" than the system
  supports anyway
- use the new constant in optionsdialog and remove defaults from
  .ui file
Merge pull request #3698

5409404 add constant for shared (GUI/core) -par settings (Philip Kaufmann)