ISSUE=8687 fixed issues with reload config

Fixed several issues with reload config, it started with concurrent
modification stack traces and moved to a few logic problems.  I believe
I have squashed them all at this point.
Merge branch 'ISSUE=8687-concurrent-modification-and-failure-to-reload-config' into 1.0.2-dev
added a check for packet size

added a check to verify the packet is the proper size
verify the proper packet size before sending
Merge branch 'ISSUE=8694-too-small-of-a-packet' into 1.0.2-dev
when flow stats are delivered, auto slice them

by pre-slicing the flow stats we can decrease the CPU from something
that is continually querying for flow stats
Merge branch 'ISSUE=8695-pre-slice-flow-stats' into 1.0.2-dev
Merge branch '1.0.2-dev' of https://github.com/ajragusa/FlowSpaceFirewall into 1.0.2-dev
Merge pull request #31 from ajragusa/1.0.2-dev

Fixing problems found during Red Team testing