fdo#83765 do not update references in SortReorderByColumn() if disabled

Similar to SortReorderByRow()

(cherry picked from commit 115a4b7ca36f65d93070d2e81048320d202e87a3)

Conflicts:
	sc/inc/column.hxx

Change-Id: I2d2fe243c91a663b14e5bd75ee30225d1b8073da
Reviewed-on: https://gerrit.libreoffice.org/13117
Reviewed-by: Kohei Yoshida <libreoffice@kohei.us>
Tested-by: Kohei Yoshida <libreoffice@kohei.us>