sync kernel code with user space

In xio_rdma_send_setup_rsp call list_move not list_add_tail.
In xio_rdma_pre_put clean phantom and sn fileds.
Remove xio_rdma-transport_init from xio_transport struct as it is
done in module level.

Signed-off-by: Shlomo Pongratz <shlomop@mellanox.com>
Fix configure.ac files

Signed-off-by: Shlomo Pongratz <shlomop@mellanox.com>