Better requested space

From commit notes:

    [refactor] Components now return desired width/height directly, rather than
    the minimum of desired width/height and offered width/height. Table now allocates
    the minimum of desired/offered height appropriately.

    This results in simpler component layout code, and lays the groundwork for simplifying the
    requestedSpace interface from 4 fields to 2
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    [refactor] Reimplement`Component._isFixedWidth` (& height) using flags not trickery

    Close #484 
Closes #484 
I don't like using `l` as a variable since it looks a lot like `1`. While we're here, could we change this to `r` or `req`?