Intl: Automatically download ICU if requested. Reduce size. Keep `--with-intl=none` the default. 

Background: see joyent#7676 of course

* [x] decide which variant is on by default
* [x] make it on by default
* [x] test more failure cases of downloading
* [x] add md5 sum
* [x] test more platforms

Could we name `localeString1` and `localeString0` with more meaningful names, or maybe just use the same `localeString` for both?