Fixing minor issues I found while building Akka on Windows

Fixes #13983

Two changes have been made:
- In AkkaBuild, forced using UTF-8 to verify HTML files containing
  diagrams
- In the documentation chapter Building Akka, added a section clarifying
  the Graphviz dependency of generating Scaladoc Content Hierarchies

These fixes eliminates the issues I faced while building Akka on Windows
with NetBeans. The first issue is a Windows specific issue where the
default charset cannot be UTF-8. The second is Windows related in the
sense that Graphviz, the optional dependency of Scaladoc, had to be
manually resolved.