[SPARK-3755][Core] avoid trying privileged port when request a non-privileged port

pwendell, ```tryPort``` is not compatible with old code in last PR, this is to fix it.
And after discuss with srowen renamed the title to "avoid trying privileged port when request a non-privileged port". Plz refer to the discuss for detail.

Author: scwf <wangfei1@huawei.com>

Closes #2623 from scwf/1-1024 and squashes the following commits:

10a4437 [scwf] add comment
de3fd17 [scwf] do not try privileged port when request a non-privileged port
42cb0fa [scwf] make tryPort compatible with old code
cb8cc76 [scwf] do not use port 1 - 1024