Java: teach 'install' to cope with 'install_done' arriving before 'ok'

In releases built after 2014-01, it is possible for the 'install_done'
event to arrive before the 'ok' at the end of an installation. This
patch teaches the Java install code to handle that gracefully.
C: Teach MTP-2 monitoring to allow options, e.g. filtering
C: Add new option to allow FISU filtering

In most applications, FISUs are not of interest, so the -f
option allows culling them.