std: Remove `RefCell::get()`

It's surprising that `RefCell::get()` is implicitly doing a clone
on a value. This patch removes it and replaces all users with
either `.borrow()` when we can autoderef, or `.borrow().clone()`
when we cannot.
std: Remove `RefCell::set()`
test: avoid infinite loop in out-of-stack.rs

This fixes #13238. It avoids an infinite loop when compiling
the tests with `-g`. Without this change, the debuginfo on
`black_box` prevents the method from being inlined, which
allows llvm to convert `silent_recurse` into a tail-call. This
then loops forever instead of consuming all the stack like it
is supposed to. This patch forces inlining `black_box`, which
triggers the right error.
auto merge of #13301 : erickt/rust/remove-refcell-get, r=huonw

`RefCell::get` can be a bit surprising, because it actually clones the wrapped value. This removes `RefCell::get` and replaces all the users with `RefCell::borrow()` when it can, and `RefCell::borrow().clone()` when it can't. It removes `RefCell::set` for consistency. This closes #13182.

It also fixes an infinite loop in a test when debugging is on.