Kernel header installation should respect --prefix

This is the upstream component of work that enables preliminary support
for building Gentoo's ZFS packaging on other Linux systems via Gentoo
Prefix.

Signed-off-by: Richard Yao <richard.yao@clusterhq.com>
Search /usr/local/src for SPL Object Directory

Since we changed the default location for the kernel headers to respect
--prefix in the SPL, we must search that location to prevent user builds
from breaking.

Signed-off-by: Richard Yao <richard.yao@clusterhq.com>