[SPARK-3756] [Core]check exception is caused by an address-port collision properly

Jetty server use MultiException to handle exceptions when start server
refer https://github.com/eclipse/jetty.project/blob/jetty-8.1.14.v20131031/jetty-server/src/main/java/org/eclipse/jetty/server/Server.java

So in ```isBindCollision``` add the logical to cover MultiException

Author: scwf <wangfei1@huawei.com>

Closes #2611 from scwf/fix-isBindCollision and squashes the following commits:

984cb12 [scwf] optimize the fix
3a6c849 [scwf] fix bug in isBindCollision