Fix default TAP device on Darwin.

On Darwin (tuntapx), the first TAP device is /dev/tap0, not /dev/tun0.
Ignore the Interface option if device rename is impossible.

There are platforms on which it is impossible to rename the TUN/TAP
device. An example is Mac OS X (tuntapx). On these platforms,
specifying the Interface option will not rename the interface, but
the specified name will still be passed to tinc-up scripts and the
like, resulting in potential confusion for the user.
Fix default device path selection on BSD.

Currently, if DeviceType = tap but Mode = router, the default
device path is /dev/tun0, which is wrong. This commit fixes that.
Preemptively mirror REQ_PUBKEY messages from nodes with unknown keys.

In this commit, if a node receives a REQ_PUBKEY message from a node it
doesn't have the key for, it will send a REQ_PUBKEY message in return
*before* sending its own key.

The rationale is to prevent delays when establishing communication
between two nodes that see each other for the first time. These delays
are caused by the first SPTPS packet being dropped on the floor, as
shown in the following typical exchange:

	node1: No Ed25519 key known for node2
	REQ_PUBKEY ->
	<- ANS_PUBKEY
	node1: Learned Ed25519 public key from node2
	REQ_SPTPS_START ->
	node2: No Ed25519 key known for zyklos
	<- REQ_PUBKEY
	ANS_PUBKEY ->
	node2: Learned Ed25519 public key from node1
	-- 10-second delay --
	node1: No key from node2 after 10 seconds, restarting SPTPS
	REQ_SPTPS_START ->
	<- SPTPS ->
	node1: SPTPS key exchange with node2 succesful
	node2: SPTPS key exchange with node1 succesful

With this patch, the following happens instead:

	node1: No Ed25519 key known for node2
	REQ_PUBKEY ->
	node2: Preemptively requesting Ed25519 key for node1
	<- REQ_PUBKEY
	<- ANS_PUBKEY
	ANS_PUBKEY ->
	node2: Learned Ed25519 public key from node1
	node1: Learned Ed25519 public key from node2
	REQ_SPTPS_START ->
	<- SPTPS ->
	node1: SPTPS key exchange with node2 succesful
	node2: SPTPS key exchange with node1 succesful