Flush stale column families

Summary:
Added a new option `max_total_wal_size`. Once the total WAL size goes over that, we make an attempt to flush all column families that still have data in the earliest WAL file.

By default, I calculate `max_total_wal_size` dynamically, that should be good-enough for non-advanced customers.

Test Plan: Added a test

Reviewers: dhruba, haobo, sdong, ljin, yhchiang

Reviewed By: haobo

CC: leveldb

Differential Revision: https://reviews.facebook.net/D18345