MB-9343 crash replication_manager if there's a mismatch between

... actual tap and upr partitions and mixed tap/upr replication
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Change-Id: I63d47becefa25425cf373cd97840ce3fa60fcf83
Reviewed-on: http://review.couchbase.org/34213
Tested-by: Artem Stemkovski <artem@couchbase.com>
Reviewed-by: Aliaksey Artamonau <aliaksiej.artamonau@gmail.com>