IR: Split MDNode into GenericMDNode and MDNodeFwdDecl

Split `MDNode` into two classes:

  - `GenericMDNode`, which is uniquable (and for now, always starts
    uniqued).  Once `Metadata` is split from the `Value` hierarchy, this
    class will lose the ability to RAUW itself.

  - `MDNodeFwdDecl`, which is used for the "temporary" interface, is
    never uniqued, and isn't managed by `LLVMContext` at all.

I've left most of the guts in `MDNode` for now, but I'll incrementally
move things to the right places (or delete the functionality, as
appropriate).

Part of PR21532.