Remove TraitStore from ty_trait

Use ty_rptr/ty_uniq(ty_trait) rather than TraitStore to represent trait types.
Also addresses (but doesn't close) #12470.
Part of the work towards DST (#12938).

[breaking-change] lifetime parameters in `&mut trait` are now invariant. They used to be contravariant.
auto merge of #14869 : nick29581/rust/tstore, r=nmatsakis

Use ty_rptr/ty_uniq(ty_trait) rather than TraitStore to represent trait types.
Also addresses (but doesn't close) #12470.
Part of the work towards DST (#12938).